<h2><SPAN name="poem20"></SPAN>WOMAN TO MAN</h2>
<blockquote><p>Woman is man’s enemy, rival, and
competitor.—<span class="smcap">John j. Ingalls</span>.</p>
</blockquote>
<p class="poetry">You do but jest, sir, and you jest not well,<br/>
How could the hand be enemy of the arm,<br/>
Or seed and sod be rivals! How could light<br/>
Feel jealousy of heat, plant of the leaf,<br/>
Or competition dwell ’twixt lip and smile?<br/>
Are we not part and parcel of yourselves?<br/>
Like strands in one great braid we entertwine<br/>
And make the perfect whole. You could not be,<br/>
Unless we gave you birth; we are the soil<br/>
From which you sprang, yet sterile were that soil<br/>
Save as you planted. (Though in the Book we read<br/>
One woman bore a child with no man’s aid,<br/>
We find no record of a man-child born<br/>
Without the aid of woman! Fatherhood<br/>
Is but a small achievement at the best,<br/>
While motherhood comprises heaven and hell.)<br/>
This ever-growing argument of sex<br/>
Is most unseemly, and devoid of sense.<br/>
Why waste more time in controversy, when<br/>
There is not time enough for all of love,<br/>
Our rightful occupation in this life?<br/>
Why prate of our defects, of where we fail,<br/>
When just the story of our worth would need<br/>
Eternity for telling, and our best<br/>
Development comes ever through your praise,<br/>
As through our praise you reach your highest self?<br/>
Oh! had you not been miser of your praise<br/>
And let our virtues be their own reward,<br/>
The old-established order of the world<br/>
Would never have been changed. Small blame is ours<br/>
For this unsexing of ourselves, and worse.<br/>
Effeminising of the male. We were<br/>
Content, sir, till you starved us, heart and brain.<br/>
All we have done, or wise, or otherwise,<br/>
Traced to the root, was done for love of you.<br/>
Let us taboo all vain comparisons,<br/>
And go forth as God meant us, hand in hand,<br/>
Companions, mates, and comrades evermore;<br/>
Two parts of one divinely ordained whole.</p>
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