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<h3>CHAPTER LXI</h3>
<h3>"Bone of My Bone"<br/> </h3>
<p>"How is it now between you and her?" That was the question which the
Duke put to his son as soon as he had closed the door of the study.
Lady Mabel had just been dismissed from the front door on her
journey, and there could be no doubt as to the "her" intended. No
such question would have been asked had not Silverbridge himself
declared to his father his purpose of making Lady Mabel his wife. On
that subject the Duke, without such authority, would not have
interfered. But he had been consulted, had acceded, and had
encouraged the idea by excessive liberality on his part. He had never
dropped it out of his mind for a moment. But when he found that the
girl was leaving his house without any explanation, then he became
restless and inquisitive.</p>
<p>They say that perfect love casteth out fear. If it be so the love of
children to their parents is seldom altogether perfect,—and perhaps
had better not be quite perfect. With this young man it was not that
he feared anything which his father could do to him, that he believed
that in consequence of the declaration which he had to make his
comforts and pleasures would be curtailed, or his independence
diminished. He knew his father too well to dread such punishment. But
he feared that he would make his father unhappy, and he was conscious
that he had so often sinned in that way. He had stumbled so
frequently! Though in action he would so often be thoughtless,—yet
he understood perfectly the effect which had been produced on his
father's mind by his conduct. He had it at heart "to be good to the
governor," to gratify that most loving of all possible friends, who,
as he knew well, was always thinking of his welfare. And yet he never
had been "good to the governor";—nor had Gerald;—and to all this
was added his sister's determined perversity. It was thus he feared
his father.</p>
<p>He paused for a moment, while the Duke stood with his back to the
fire looking at him. "I'm afraid that it is all over, sir," he said.</p>
<p>"All over!"</p>
<p>"I am afraid so."</p>
<p>"Why is it all over? Has she refused you?"</p>
<p>"Well, sir;—it isn't quite that." Then he paused again. It was so
difficult to begin about Isabel Boncassen.</p>
<p>"I am sorry for that," said the Duke, almost hesitating; "very sorry.
You will understand, I hope, that I should make no inquiry in such a
matter, unless I had felt myself warranted in doing so by what you
had yourself told me in London."</p>
<p>"I understand all that."</p>
<p>"I have been very anxious about it, and have even gone so far as to
make some preparations for what I had hoped would be your early
marriage."</p>
<p>"Preparations!" exclaimed Silverbridge, thinking of church bells,
bride cake, and wedding presents.</p>
<p>"As to the property. I am so anxious that you should enjoy all the
settled independence which can belong to an English gentleman. I
never plough or sow. I know no more of sheep and bulls than of the
extinct animals of earlier ages. I would not have it so with you. I
would fain see you surrounded by those things which ought to interest
a nobleman in this country. Why is it all over with Lady Mabel Grex?"</p>
<p>The young man looked imploringly at his father, as though earnestly
begging that nothing more might be said about Mabel. "I had changed
my mind before I found out that she was really in love with me!" He
could not say that. He could not hint that he might still have Mabel
if he would. The only thing for him was to tell everything about
Isabel Boncassen. He felt that in doing this he must begin with
himself. "I have rather changed my mind, sir," he said, "since we
were walking together in London that night."</p>
<p>"Have you quarrelled with Lady Mabel?"</p>
<p>"Oh dear no. I am very fond of Mabel;—only not just like that."</p>
<p>"Not just like what?"</p>
<p>"I had better tell the whole truth at once."</p>
<p>"Certainly tell the truth, Silverbridge. I cannot say that you are
bound in duty to tell the whole truth even to your father in such a
matter."</p>
<p>"But I mean to tell you everything. Mabel did not seem to care for me
much—in London. And then I saw someone,—someone I liked better."
Then he stopped, but as the Duke did not ask any questions he plunged
on. "It was Miss Boncassen."</p>
<p>"Miss Boncassen!"</p>
<p>"Yes, sir," said Silverbridge, with a little access of decision.</p>
<p>"The American young lady?"</p>
<p>"Yes, sir."</p>
<p>"Do you know anything of her family?"</p>
<p>"I think I know all about her family. It is not much in the way
of—family."</p>
<p>"You have not spoken to her about it?"</p>
<p>"Yes, sir;—I have settled it all with her, on condition—"</p>
<p>"Settled it with her that she is to be your wife!"</p>
<p>"Yes, sir,—on condition that you will approve."</p>
<p>"Did you go to her, Silverbridge, with such a stipulation as that?"</p>
<p>"It was not like that."</p>
<p>"How was it then?"</p>
<p>"She stipulated. She will marry me if you will consent."</p>
<p>"It was she then who thought of my wishes and my feeling;—not you?"</p>
<p>"I knew that I loved her. What is a man to do when he feels like
that? Of course I meant to tell you." The Duke was now looking very
black. "I thought you liked her, sir."</p>
<p>"Liked her! I did like her. I do like her. What has that to do with
it? Do you think I like none but those with whom I should think it
fitting to ally myself in marriage? Is there to be no duty in such
matters, no restraint, no feeling of what is due to your own name,
and to others who bear it? The lad out there who is sweeping the
walks can marry the first girl that pleases his eye if she will take
him. Perhaps his lot is the happier because he owns such liberty.
Have you the same freedom?"</p>
<p>"I suppose I have,—by law."</p>
<p>"Do you recognise no duty but what the laws impose upon you? Should
you be disposed to eat and drink in bestial excess, because the laws
would not hinder you? Should you lie and sleep all the day, the law
would say nothing! Should you neglect every duty which your position
imposes on you, the law could not interfere! To such a one as you the
law can be no guide. You should so live as not to come near the
law,—or to have the law to come near to you. From all evil against
which the law bars you, you should be barred, at an infinite
distance, by honour, by conscience, and nobility. Does the law
require patriotism, philanthropy, self-abnegation, public service,
purity of purpose, devotion to the needs of others who have been
placed in the world below you? The law is a great thing,—because men
are poor and weak, and bad. And it is great, because where it exists
in its strength, no tyrant can be above it. But between you and me
there should be no mention of law as the guide of conduct. Speak to
me of honour, of duty, and of nobility; and tell me what they require
of you."</p>
<p>Silverbridge listened in silence and with something of true
admiration in his heart. But he felt the strong necessity of
declaring his own convictions on one special point here, at once, in
this new crisis of the conversation. That accident in regard to the
colour of the Dean's lodge had stood in the way of his logical
studies,—so that he was unable to put his argument into proper
shape; but there belonged to him a certain natural astuteness which
told him that he must put in his rejoinder at this particular point.
"I think I am bound in honour and in duty to marry Miss Boncassen,"
he said. "And, if I understand what you mean, by nobility just as
much."</p>
<p>"Because you have promised."</p>
<p>"Not only for that. I have promised and therefore I am bound. She
has—well, she has said that she loves me, and therefore of course I
am bound. But it is not only that."</p>
<p>"What do you mean?"</p>
<p>"I suppose a man ought to marry the woman he loves,—if he can get
her."</p>
<p>"No; no; not so; not always so. Do you think that love is a passion
that cannot be withstood?"</p>
<p>"But here we are both of one mind, sir. When I saw how you seemed to
take to <span class="nowrap">her—"</span></p>
<p>"Take to her! Can I not interest myself in human beings without
wishing to make them flesh of my flesh, bone of my bone? What am I to
think of you? It was but the other day that all that you are now
telling me of Miss Boncassen, you were telling me of Lady Mabel
Grex." Here poor Silverbridge bit his lips and shook his head, and
looked down upon the ground. This was the weak part of his case. He
could not tell his father the whole story about Mabel,—that she had
coyed his love, so that he had been justified in thinking himself
free from any claim in that direction when he had encountered the
infinitely sweeter charms of Isabel Boncassen. "You are weak as
water," said the unhappy father.</p>
<p>"I am not weak in this."</p>
<p>"Did you not say exactly the same about Lady Mabel?"</p>
<p>There was a pause, so that he was driven to reply. "I found her as I
thought indifferent, and then—I changed my mind."</p>
<p>"Indifferent! What does she think about it now? Does she know of
this? How does it stand between you two at the present moment?"</p>
<p>"She knows that I am engaged to—Miss Boncassen."</p>
<p>"Does she approve of it?"</p>
<p>"Why should I ask her, sir? I have not asked her."</p>
<p>"Then why did you tell her? She could not but have spoken her mind
when you told her. There must have been much between you when this
was talked of."</p>
<p>The unfortunate young man was obliged to take some time before he
could answer this appeal. He had to own that his father had some
justice on his side, but at the same time he could reveal nothing of
Mabel's secret. "I told her because we were friends. I did not ask
her approval; but she did disapprove. She thought that your son
should not marry an American girl without family."</p>
<p>"Of course she would feel that."</p>
<p>"Now I have told you what she said, and I hope you will ask me no
further questions about her. I cannot make Lady Mabel my
wife;—though, for the matter of that, I ought not to presume that
she would take me if I wished it. I had intended to ask you to-day to
consent to my marriage with Miss Boncassen."</p>
<p>"I cannot give you my consent."</p>
<p>"Then I am very unhappy."</p>
<p>"How can I believe as to your unhappiness when you would have said
the same about Lady Mabel Grex a few weeks ago?"</p>
<p>"Nearly eight months," said Silverbridge.</p>
<p>"What is the difference? It is not the time, but the disposition of
the man! I cannot give you my consent. The young lady sees it in the
right light, and that will make your escape easy."</p>
<p>"I do not want to escape."</p>
<p>"She has indicated the cause which will separate you."</p>
<p>"I will not be separated from her," said Silverbridge, who was
beginning to feel that he was subjugated to tyranny. If he chose to
marry Isabel, no one could have a right to hinder him.</p>
<p>"I can only hope that you will think better of it, and that when next
you speak to me on that or any other subject you will answer me with
less arrogance."</p>
<p>This rebuke was terrible to the son, whose mind at the present moment
was filled with two ideas, that of constancy to Isabel Boncassen, and
then of respect and affection for his father. "Indeed, sir," he said,
"I am not arrogant, and if I have answered improperly I beg your
pardon. But my mind is made up about this, and I thought you had
better know how it is."</p>
<p>"I do not see that I can say anything else to you now."</p>
<p>"I think of going to Harrington this afternoon." Then the Duke, with
further very visible annoyance, asked where Harrington was. It was
explained that Harrington was Lord Chiltern's seat, Lord Chiltern
being the Master of the Brake hounds;—that it was his son's purpose
to remain six weeks among the Brake hounds, but that he should stay
only a day or two with Lord Chiltern. Then it appeared that
Silverbridge intended to put himself up at a hunting inn in the
neighbourhood, and the Duke did not at all like the plan. That his
son should choose to live at an inn, when the comforts of an English
country house were open to him, was distasteful and almost offensive
to the Duke. And the matter was not improved when he was made to
understand that all this was to be done for the sake of hunting.
There had been the shooting in Scotland; then the racing,—ah, alas!
yes,—the racing, and the betting at Doncaster! Then the shooting at
Matching had been made to appear to be the chief reason why he
himself had been living in his own house! And now his son was going
away to live at an inn in order that more time might be devoted to
hunting! "Why can't you hunt here at home, if you must hunt?"</p>
<p>"It is all woodland," said Silverbridge.</p>
<p>"I thought you wanted woods. Lord Chiltern is always troubling me
about Trumpington Wood."</p>
<p>This breeze about the hunting enabled the son to escape without any
further allusion to Miss Boncassen. He did escape, and proceeded to
turn over in his mind all that had been said. His tale had been told.
A great burden was thus taken off his shoulders. He could tell Isabel
so much, and thus free himself from the suspicion of having been
afraid to declare his purpose. She should know what he had done, and
should be made to understand that he had been firm. He had, he
thought, been very firm and gave himself some credit on that head.
His father, no doubt, had been firm too, but that he had expected.
His father had said much. All that about honour and duty had been
very good; but this was certain,—that when a young man had promised
a young woman he ought to keep his word. And he thought that there
were certain changes going on in the management of the world which
his father did not quite understand. Fathers never do quite
understand the changes which are manifest to their sons. Some years
ago it might have been improper that an American girl should be
elevated to the rank of an English Duchess; but now all that was
altered.</p>
<p>The Duke spent the rest of the day alone, and was not happy in his
solitude. All that Silverbridge had told him was sad to him. He had
taught himself to think that he could love Lady Mabel as an
affectionate father wishes to love his son's wife. He had set himself
to wish to like her, and had been successful. Being most anxious that
his son should marry he had prepared himself to be more than
ordinarily liberal,—to be in every way gracious. His children were
now everything to him, and among his children his son and heir was
the chief. From the moment in which he had heard from Silverbridge
that Lady Mabel was chosen he had given himself up to considering how
he might best promote their interests,—how he might best enable them
to live, with that dignity and splendour which he himself had
unwisely despised. That the son who was to come after him should be
worthy of the place assigned to his name had been, of personal
objects, the nearest to his heart. There had been failures, but still
there had been left room for hope. The boy had been unfortunate at
Eton;—but how many unfortunate boys had become great men! He had
disgraced himself by his folly at college,—but, though some lads
will be men at twenty, others are then little more than children. The
fruit that ripens the soonest is seldom the best. Then had come Tifto
and the racing mania. Nothing could be worse than Tifto and
race-horses. But from that evil Silverbridge had seemed to be made
free by the very disgust which the vileness of the circumstance had
produced. Perhaps Tifto driving a nail into his horse's foot had on
the whole been serviceable. That apostasy from the political creed of
the Pallisers had been a blow,—much more felt than the loss of the
seventy thousand pounds;—but even under that blow he had consoled
himself by thinking that a Conservative patriotic nobleman may serve
his country,—even as a Conservative. In the midst of this he had
felt that the surest resource for his son against evil would be in an
early marriage. If he would marry becomingly, then might everything
still be made pleasant. If his son would marry becomingly nothing
which a father could do should be wanting to add splendour and
dignity to his son's life.</p>
<p>In thinking of all this he had by no means regarded his own mode of
life with favour. He knew how jejune his life had been,—how devoid
of other interests than that of the public service to which he had
devoted himself. He was thinking of this when he told his son that he
had neither ploughed and sowed or been the owner of sheep or oxen. He
often thought of this, when he heard those around him talking of the
sports, which, though he condemned them as the employments of a life,
he now regarded wistfully, hopelessly as far as he himself was
concerned, as proper recreations for a man of wealth. Silverbridge
should have it all, if he could arrange it. The one thing necessary
was a fitting wife;—and the fitting wife had been absolutely chosen
by Silverbridge himself.</p>
<p>It may be conceived, therefore, that he was again unhappy. He had
already been driven to acknowledge that these children of
his,—thoughtless, restless, though they seemed to be,—still had a
will of their own. In all which how like they were to their mother!
With her, however, his word, though it might be resisted, had never
lost its authority. When he had declared that a thing should not be
done, she had never persisted in saying that she would do it. But
with his children it was otherwise. What power had he over
Silverbridge,—or for the matter of that, even over his daughter?
They had only to be firm and he knew that he must be conquered.</p>
<p>"I thought that you liked her," Silverbridge had said to him. How
utterly unconscious, thought the Duke, must the young man have been
of all that his position required of him when he used such an
argument! Liked her! He did like her. She was clever, accomplished,
beautiful, well-mannered,—as far as he knew endowed with all good
qualities! Would not many an old Roman have said as much for some
favourite Greek slave,—for some freedman whom he would admit to his
very heart? But what old Roman ever dreamed of giving his daughter to
the son of a Greek bondsman! Had he done so, what would have become
of the name of a Roman citizen? And was it not his duty to fortify
and maintain that higher, smaller, more precious pinnacle of rank on
which Fortune had placed him and his children?</p>
<p>Like her! Yes! he liked her certainly. He had by no means always
found that he best liked the companionship of his own order. He had
liked to feel around him the free battle of the House of Commons. He
liked the power of attack and defence in carrying on which an English
politician cares nothing for rank. He liked to remember that the son
of any tradesman might, by his own merits, become a peer of
Parliament. He would have liked to think that his son should share
all these tastes with him. Yes,—he liked Isabel Boncassen. But how
different was that liking from a desire that she should be bone of
his bone, and flesh of his flesh!</p>
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