<p><SPAN name="link19" id="link19"></SPAN>Then Almitra spoke again and said, And what of
<b><i>Marriage</i></b> master?</p>
<p>And he answered saying:</p>
<p>You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.</p>
<p>You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.</p>
<p>Aye, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.</p>
<p>But let there be spaces in your togetherness,</p>
<p>And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.</p>
<p class="p2">
Love one another, but make not a bond of love:</p>
<p>Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.</p>
<p>Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup.</p>
<p>Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf. <SPAN name="link20"></SPAN>Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of
you be alone,</p>
<p>Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.</p>
<p class="p2">
Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping.</p>
<p>For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.</p>
<p>And stand together yet not too near together:</p>
<p>For the pillars of the temple stand apart,</p>
<p>And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow.</p>
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<p><SPAN name="link21" id="link21"></SPAN>And a woman who held a babe against her bosom
said, Speak to us of <b><i>Children</i></b>.</p>
<p>And he said:</p>
<p>Your children are not your children.</p>
<p>They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.</p>
<p>They come through you but not from you,</p>
<p>And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.</p>
<p class="p2">
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,</p>
<p>For they have their own thoughts.</p>
<p>You may house their bodies but not their souls,</p>
<p>For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not
even in your dreams.</p>
<p>You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. <SPAN name="link22" id="link22"></SPAN>For life goes not backward nor tarries with
yesterday.</p>
<p>You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.</p>
<p>The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with
His might that His arrows may go swift and far.</p>
<p>Let your bending in the Archer’s hand be for gladness;</p>
<p>For even as he loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is
stable.</p>
<p><SPAN name="link23" id="link23"></SPAN>Then said a rich man, Speak to us of
<b><i>Giving</i></b>.</p>
<p>And he answered:</p>
<p>You give but little when you give of your possessions.</p>
<p>It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.</p>
<p>For what are your possessions but things you keep and guard for fear you may
need them tomorrow?</p>
<p>And tomorrow, what shall tomorrow bring to the overprudent dog burying bones in
the trackless sand as he follows the pilgrims to the holy city?</p>
<p>And what is fear of need but need itself?</p>
<p>Is not dread of thirst when your well is full, the thirst that is unquenchable?</p>
<p>There are those who give little of the <SPAN name="link24" id="link24"></SPAN>much
which they have—and they give it for recognition and their hidden desire
makes their gifts unwholesome.</p>
<p>And there are those who have little and give it all.</p>
<p>These are the believers in life and the bounty of life, and their coffer is
never empty.</p>
<p>There are those who give with joy, and that joy is their reward.</p>
<p>And there are those who give with pain, and that pain is their baptism.</p>
<p>And there are those who give and know not pain in giving, nor do they seek joy,
nor give with mindfulness of virtue;</p>
<p>They give as in yonder valley the myrtle breathes its fragrance into space.</p>
<p>Through the hands of such as these God speaks, and from behind their eyes He
smiles upon the earth.</p>
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<p>It is well to give when asked, but it is better to give unasked, through
understanding;</p>
<p>And to the open-handed the search for <SPAN name="link25" id="link25"></SPAN>one who
shall receive is joy greater than giving.</p>
<p>And is there aught you would withhold?</p>
<p>All you have shall some day be given;</p>
<p>Therefore give now, that the season of giving may be yours and not your
inheritors’.</p>
<p>You often say, “I would give, but only to the deserving.”</p>
<p>The trees in your orchard say not so, nor the flocks in your pasture.</p>
<p>They give that they may live, for to withhold is to perish.</p>
<p>Surely he who is worthy to receive his days and his nights, is worthy of all
else from you.</p>
<p>And he who has deserved to drink from the ocean of life deserves to fill his
cup from your little stream.</p>
<p>And what desert greater shall there be, than that which lies in the courage and
the confidence, nay the charity, of receiving?</p>
<p>And who are you that men should rend <SPAN name="link26" id="link26"></SPAN>their
bosom and unveil their pride, that you may see their worth naked and their
pride unabashed?</p>
<p>See first that you yourself deserve to be a giver, and an instrument of giving.</p>
<p>For in truth it is life that gives unto life—while you, who deem yourself
a giver, are but a witness.</p>
<p>And you receivers—and you are all receivers—assume no weight of
gratitude, lest you lay a yoke upon yourself and upon him who gives.</p>
<p>Rather rise together with the giver on his gifts as on wings;</p>
<p>For to be overmindful of your debt, is ito doubt his generosity who has the
freehearted earth for mother, and God for father.</p>
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<p><SPAN name="link27" id="link27"></SPAN>Then an old man, a keeper of an inn, said,
Speak to us of <b><i>Eating and Drinking</i></b>.</p>
<p>And he said:</p>
<p>Would that you could live on the fragrance of the earth, and like an air plant
be sustained by the light.</p>
<p>But since you must kill to eat, and rob the newly born of its mother’s
milk to quench your thirst, let it then be an act of worship,</p>
<p>And let your board stand an altar on which the pure and the innocent of forest
and plain are sacrificed for that which is purer and still more innocent in
man.</p>
<p class="p2">
When you kill a beast say to him in your heart,</p>
<p>“By the same power that slays you, I too am slain; and I too shall be
consumed. <SPAN name="link28" id="link28"></SPAN>For the law that delivered you into
my hand shall deliver me into a mightier hand.</p>
<p>Your blood and my blood is naught but the sap that feeds the tree of
heaven.”</p>
<p class="p2">
And when you crush an apple with your teeth, say to it in your heart,</p>
<p>“Your seeds shall live in my body,</p>
<p>And the buds of your tomorrow shall blossom in my heart,</p>
<p>And your fragrance shall be my breath, And together we shall rejoice through
all the seasons.”</p>
<p class="p2">
And in the autumn, when you gather the grapes of your vineyards for the
winepress, say in your heart,</p>
<p>“I too am a vineyard, and my fruit shall be gathered for the winepress,</p>
<p>And like new wine I shall be kept in eternal vessels.”</p>
<p>And in winter, when you draw the wine, <SPAN name="link29" id="link29"></SPAN>let
there be in your heart a song for each cup;</p>
<p>And let there be in the song a remembrance for the autumn days, and for the
vineyard, and for the winepress.</p>
<p><SPAN name="link30" id="link30"></SPAN> Then a ploughman said, Speak to us of
<b><i>Work</i></b>.</p>
<p>And he answered, saying:</p>
<p>You work that you may keep pace with the earth and the soul of the earth.</p>
<p>For to be idle is to become a stranger unto the seasons, and to step out of
life’s procession, that marches in majesty and proud submission towards
the infinite.</p>
<p>When you work you are a flute through whose heart the whispering of the hours
turns to music.</p>
<p>Which of you would be a reed, dumb and silent, when all else sings together in
unison?</p>
<p>Always you have been told that work is a curse and labour a misfortune.</p>
<p>But I say to you that when you work you fulfil a part of earth’s furthest
dream, <SPAN name="link31" id="link31"></SPAN>assigned to you when that dream was
born,</p>
<p>And in keeping yourself with labour you are in truth loving life,</p>
<p>And to love life through labour is to be intimate with life’s inmost
secret.</p>
<p class="p2">
But if you in your pain call birth an affliction and the support of the flesh a
curse written upon your brow, then I answer that naught but the sweat of your
brow shall wash away that which is written.</p>
<p>You have been told also that life is darkness, and in your weariness you echo
what was said by the weary.</p>
<p>And I say that life is indeed darkness ‘save when there is urge,</p>
<p>And all urge is blind save when there is knowledge,</p>
<p>And all knowledge is vain save when there is work,</p>
<p>And all work is empty save when there is love;</p>
<p>And when you work with love you bind <SPAN name="link32" id="link32"></SPAN>yourself
to yourself, and to one another, and to God.</p>
<p class="p2">
And what is it to work with love?</p>
<p>It is to weave the cloth with threads drawn from your heart, even as if your
beloved were to wear that cloth.</p>
<p>It is to build a house with affection, even as if your beloved were to dwell in
that house.</p>
<p>It is to sow seeds with tenderness and reap the harvest with joy, even as if
your beloved were to eat the fruit.</p>
<p>It is to charge all things you fashion with a breath of your own spirit,</p>
<p>And to know that all the blessed dead are standing about you and watching.</p>
<p>Often have I heard you say, as if speaking in sleep, “He who works in
marble, and finds the shape of his own soul in the stone, is nobler than he who
ploughs the soil. <SPAN name="link33"></SPAN>And he who seizes the rainbow to lay it
on a cloth in the likeness of man, is more than he who makes the sandals for
our feet.”</p>
<p>But I say, not in sleep but in the overwakefulness of noontide, that the wind
speaks not more sweetly to the giant oaks than to the least of all the blades
of grass;</p>
<p>And he alone is great who turns the voice of the wind into a song made sweeter
by his own loving.</p>
<p class="p2">
Work is love made visible.</p>
<p>And if you cannot work with love but only with distaste, it is better that you
should leave your work and sit at the gate of the temple and take alms of those
who work with joy.</p>
<p>For if you bake bread with indifference, you bake a bitter bread that feeds but
half man’s hunger.</p>
<p>And if you grudge the crushing of the grapes, your grudge distils a poison in
the wine. <SPAN name="link34" id="link34"></SPAN>And if you sing though as angels,
and love not the singing, you muffle man’s ears to the voices of the day
and the voices of the night.</p>
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